Commitment Versus Attachment
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When I feel committed, it gives me purpose, energy, direction.But to fulfill my commitment, especially if someone else is committed to the opposite cause, I need to understand all angles, all sides. I need to not let disdain and scorn and hate get in my way. It’s a lot like practicing law.
Attachment feels different. It feels like a clingy state. There’s something I want, I think I know why,and I’m sure I know best. I’m not learning, not open, and often, not understanding. There’s a tightness – it’s inside the word itself – and separation, and sometimes, hate.
Maybe commitment is about being fierce, and attachment is vicious. Maybe commitment is about caring and attachment isn’t. I don’t know for sure. What is the difference for you?